Not everyone is a book nerd. Not everyone likes books. But I like to believe that most parents still want their children to love and respect books as treasures.
I started reading to Matheson as early as he was only a fetus, since before I even knew I was having a boy. I would read everything to the jelly bean, from simple "easy readers" books that I planned to read to him as a baby, and even to reading aloud some of the novels I went through for my own fancy during pregnancy. At first it started out as a relaxing thing. For me, reading out loud during pregnancy helped me get used to the fact that I was expecting a baby. I suppose it was because I was acknowledging the presence of someone who could hear me even though he wasn't entirely there yet. As the pregnancy progressed, I thought maybe he'd be more accustomed to my reading voice out of the womb if he heard it enough from inside so I started reading to my fat belly every night before bed. Whether or not it had an actual effect on my son, I can't be too sure, but over the years he's maintained his love and fascination for books so I can't say it didn't help.
Before he was born, I already had a set of easy books for him. Just simple stories that I could read to him every night. It became a lot harder when he was around 8 months old because he started talking and interjecting between all the pages and if I didn't get through the book in under a minute, we wouldn't end up finishing the book at all.
By the age of two, his attention span was much more forgiving and I was able to finish reading books cover to cover, though I still had to read pretty fast before his attention span dawdled to something else. But because he was already so fluent in English, I started introducing French books to him as a challenge and over time he was identifying some things from the stories we read like une baleine, un canard, un chat and other animals.
Luckily for me, he's appreciated all types of stories and I noticed his love for books started off early when he began requesting the books he memorized so he could say them with me as I read to him.
After I started university, my son was a little over two, I was also working two part-time jobs. The bed-time story routine stopped for a while because of that. It was really hard for me to get home before his bed-time so he usually went to bed without a story at all. Eventually I quit both my jobs so I could focus on school and the book-reading routine continued. Now, at the age of roughly four and a half, and a good bed-time story routine instilled, my son absolutely loves stories. On top of having a short story every night, we're reading an abridged version of The Adventures of Tom Sawyer and he seems to be pretty invested in it so far. He always remembers where we left off and he'll ask questions about characters and their motives so I know he's paying fair attention.
It's little things like that that make parenting so fulfilling. I can't explain my love and fascination for books and for reading, but I know he's developed a love for them as well. He remembers all the plots, long or short, and even though he's still in the process of really being able to read, he understands the construction of a good story. He's developing his comprehension skills and I noticed that he's doing a good job identifying characters with their traits, their roles in the story and their titles. He always tries to determine their motives, while understanding when a character has done something bad or something good and tries to come up with ways that a mischievous character ought to redeem his or herself, even if it's as simple as having a character admit to stealing the cookies before dinner and giving mom an apology hug. Many parents can dispute this, but I believe character analysis at a young age is a very healthy tool in becoming a good judge of character when kids get older and face their own real life villains and encounter true to life heroes.
I guess as you go through the motions of a learning parent, you realize the importance of books and the impact that stories have on your children. Books really are treasures in a manner of speaking and with my son, I do expect him to treat books with a level of respect (unless I can agree that they are absolute garbage, like The Mortal Instruments series, my sentiments towards that story line is a whole other post of malcontent and sheer dissatisfaction). I want my son to value the simplicity of words written on sheets of paper that have the ability to take your mind out of reality, even if for a few moments. If you grow up with books the way I did, you learn to love the sheer simplicity in turning pages and the thrill of a building plot. I want him to appreciate the classics for the principles they inspire and even contemporary works that he can follow through to the denouement and still let his creativity and imagination alternate the resolve. I can say I want him to be like me, but I don't. I just want him to develop the admirable traits that people get when they have a care for such things as books and I'm thoroughly hoping he does become an avid reader, even if his taste for books vary dramatically from my own.
So anyway, this month, I've gone a little crazy with my book purchases, but namely because there are so many things on sale at Indigo. I've purchased a fair amount of reads for myself as well as for Matheson and I must say I'm pretty impressed so far. For anyone looking to get a good read for yourself or for your children or as a gift for a friend or family member, these are the books I've picked up this month and I do recommend them.
My titles:
Antigoddess by Kendare Blake
Girl of Nightmares by Kendare Blake
Paper Valentine by Brenna Yovanoff
The Signature of All Things by Elizabeth Gilbert
Dark Witch (Book one of The Cousin's O'Dwyer Trilogy) by Nora Roberts
My son's titles:
Advent Elf by Barbara Korthues
Christmas Hat by The Templar Company PLC
Snow Tree by A.J. Woods
The Dark by Lemony Snicket
Grumpy Badger's Christmas by Paul Bright
The Day the Crayons Quit by Drew Daywalt
Jack the Bear by Christina Leist